I acknowledge that this can be tricky for some of us; not everyone is as thin or slim as we would like. Also, our male bodies are not naturally as curvy or svelte as a woman’s. There are ways of addressing this. First of all, are you wearing only your lingerie, or are you just trying to have something that makes you feel sexy under your outfit?

If you’re just trying to be sexy in only your lingerie and admire yourself in a photo or the mirror, choose your lingerie carefully. Got a bit of a belly; choose a camisole or nightie with a looser flowing hem from under your bust. Maybe try a black teddy with full coverage, tummy control, and maybe some lace accents on the edges; combine this with some thigh high stockings with lace tops. Maybe you don’t have hips to emphasize; a pair of high-waisted panties will give the illusion of a smaller waist. There are loads of ideas and adaptable styles.

If you’re going to try and have something sexy under an outfit, there is lots of lingerie available that can add to your figure. Some shops sell panties with a bit of added padding to enhance your butt or hips.

Getting a good quality push up bra with a good amount of built-in padding will help with adding a more feminine chest under a tight t-shirt, you might even be lucky enough to get a bit of cleavage.