Now the final and maybe most important part; how can we deal with our hair. Personally, I have very hairy arms and legs; so hairy that if I shaved it all off, people would immediately notice. Over time I’ve developed a few strategies to deal with this, but none of them are as good as really being hairless.

Body stocking

Because my hair is so thick, I’ve got to cover it because shaving it all off is going to be noticed the next day. The best strategy is to utilize stockings, multiple pairs.

Two layers is usually enough to cover most body hair. I have even bought pairs of flesh toned stockings and cut a head hole out and used the legs as arm coverings. This is really only ok if I’ve got a full outfit on and I’ve got my sexy lingerie on underneath. A small piece of advice I can give is to cut one or two finger and thumb holes in the ends of the stockings to stick your fingers through. This way the tights won’t slowly shrivel up and slide backwards revealing your arm hair.

Things like a full body stocking can work too; a fishnet body stocking can feel very sexy and hold back most body hair. Home alone, this works fine and gives me a feminine feeling inside. I tend to use a fishnet body stocking with a fairly dense pattern, but you could use a more permeable net if you’ve got less body hair.

I’ve bought mainly cheaper body stockings, sometimes from a Halloween shop, but I don’t recommend them. A cheap fishnet will break easily and even a small run in your fishnet stocking is much more noticeable than in a normal stocking.

I’ve not yet found a good quality full body stocking that meets my needs for sale in any shop; I’m sure they exist. If you have any recommendations, please leave them in the comments. What I have seen is almost like a full body stocking, but a bit thicker, with a long zipper that can go down the front. It can cling almost like nylon tights. Getting a lighter colored one of these, white or a light pink, paired with black lingerie would be very sexy in my opinion. I’ve even seen some that can cover part of your neck, giving your Adam’s apple some masking.

Shaving

Finally, we can discuss the full body shave. This can be quite an undertaking, especially if you are quite a hairy person. I have a few pieces of advice to achieve the best results.

First of all, why not ask a female friend how they shave their legs and arms. You’re basically trying to do the same thing. Pay attention to the types of products they use. The razors women use on their legs are different than the ones marketed for men. Also, using shaving lotions or creams intended for women will leave a very feminine scent when you’re done. If you’re a bit shy to ask, there are product reviews online that can help you find the best shavers and razors.

Next, I would get yourself a dedicated body trimmer. I personally have reservations about using my beard trimmer on bits below my waist. Also, just like women’s razors, a lot of companies are making hair trimmers dedicated to your body rather than your face. I tend to trim down all of my body hair first; this makes using a razor afterward much easier and the blades will last longer. When it’s time to use the razors, be careful; the skin on some parts of your body isn’t the same as the skin on your face. Your shins have quite thin skin and a small cut on your lower leg will bleed and bleed. Armpits, elbows, and knees have looser, more flexible skin that can be easy to cut.

Lastly, it’s up to you how much of your manly bits you want to shave. If you’re worried about it, you could try waxing; please leave your comments if you have tried this. Here you have the problems of thinner and more flexible skin, not to mention the damage you could do if you make a mistake. (The artery on the top of your penis will spray blood if you hit it accidentally, and it will bleed fast! If you have an accident here you must seek medical attention immediately!)

I hope that some of this advice has helped or inspired you to seek out some new sexy lingerie, or helped you maximize the feminine results of your existing collection.

I love lingerie and only wish that more of it worked for us crossdressers more easily. No matter what your body shape or size, there is definitely something that can make you feel sexy and womanly out there. Be mindful of a few things when you prepare to dress and I’m sure you will be impressed with the results. If you’ve got any tips or things to share, please leave a comment, I’d love to hear your thoughts in this topic and what you like to wear at home!