Social media is something which is always a double-edged sword for anyone. One should be very careful while using Social media, especially cross-dressers like us who love to keep our personal details private.

I always maintained a low profile as I had a very bad experience in the beginning days of my social media usage 10 years ago. Unlike most cross-dressing sister who started their journey with Orkut and Yahoo groups, I started it with Facebook directly. I kept my profile public and tried to accept friend requests from strangers and with the Facebook algorithm to recognize at least 3 friends of yours to recover your account. I failed to do so and I couldn't able to recover my account. That was a good start and that experience made me learn so many things.

I created a new account then, it was almost 10 years ago and it is still working. I set myself some rules. Don't accept friendship requests from strangers. You must be wondered what I am saying..Yes we are strangers with a common interest in cross-dressing. Over a period of time, I met lot of our CD sisters during the Kerala Chamayavilakku and Tirupati Gangamma jatara festivals. I had a good time discussing crossdressing interests and we used to share our experiences with each other. It was really a wonderful experience to meet them all.

I was happy with that small group of friends on Facebook until I embarked my journey on Instagram. Instagram seems so secure to me and we can get all that freedom and the best part is reels..of course reels..but I have come across different kinds of people from various walks of life...my experience with them is both positive and negative at the same time.

Some people in the very first chat conversation will show their banana and I really don't understand why people are so obsessed with Sex all the time. Some are very passionate lovers who share love reels with me and started proposing me. Earlier I used to tell them that I am a crossdresser and stay away from me but these days I started to convince them saying I am married but realized that people don't listen...you know what to do as a final option...BLOCK them.

Some are so demanding that they will ask you to DM them and some share their phone numbers and ask you to call them..Some are so crazy that they directly make audio call or even video call as if you are always at their disposal...So just like there are two sides to a coin you can get an opportunity to connect with some amazing people and you can get lot of inspiration too especially from Gen Y and Gen Z guys.

As a natural thing for Crossdressing, they love to be admired by others but sometimes this craze will have no limits by bothering others to come on a video call at odd times when they are dressed. I can understand them because people with such inclinations will usually never come out to their families and friends. But they should not bother others by calling them during the wee hours.

Some are at a different level on the very first interaction they will ask you for your stuff, they don't mind asking you favor to dress them up as if you promised them and failed to keep your promise. Sharing stuff with others is not a big thing but post-Carona somewhere in the corner of our minds we started thinking of hygiene as one of the utmost things to be taken care of. So, stopped sharing my stuff with others and now it's a big NO. I call these people so crazily lazy in learning the art of makeup and trying to be independent.

Finally, we all can grow together as a community...so we all should learn to complement each other in our efforts..because cross-dressing is not just a simple thing to do, it requires a lot of planning and preparation..So, let's complement and encourage each other and strengthen our crossdressing community...

Last but not least..Not all Crossdressers are sex seekers..they are simple straight guys with families.. So understand their sexual orientation by going through their profiles before you share your intentions with them.

Happy Dressing and enjoy this great life of being two persons at the same time..

P.S: All the blog posts are my personal experiences and no fiction work was there in these blog posts. Tried my level best to put my experiences as it is so that others can get some motivation out of it.
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