I maintained a very low social media profile for quite a long time and I used to accept friend requests from the people with whom I met in person during my visit to Kollam or Tirupathi. But in the recent past, I started accepting friend requests from like-minded people who are strangers to me and during this process, I have come across some people whose behavior is completely strange and surprised me as well.

One of the recent experiences happened on Instagram, one follower with a female profile started following me and started chatting with me. I usually respond to all the messages and comments I get on the same day itself. While I started chatting with her she said you look like my ammi jaan (Mom) and she asked me whether she could call me Ammi jaan(Mom). She further said I look like her mom. She even shared someone's picture calling it as her mom's picture. I am not sure whether I look like her or not but I liked the way she requested me to be her Mom. So, I accepted her wish to call as ammi jaan. She also requested me to call her beta not beti. I said OK to that as well. To my surprise, in just a matter of minutes, she started a sex chat with me and I realized that that fellow was having some feelings towards his/her mother which was unacceptable. This perverted behavior took me aback. I told her that it was not correct to visualize your mother for your sexual fantasies and blocked her. This incident happened almost a month ago now but still, it disturbed me a lot. These are the creepy people who at one point in time end up in serious pornography shit. This is more dangerous than taking substances and it will more damage to one's mental health.
There is one more person who used to call me Didi (elder sister) on Instagram one day revealed that he used to masturbate by looking at my picture. I asked him, you call me Didi and you do all this. Shame on you..this is disgusting. He told me an apology for 100 times but once we know the intentions of that person then we can't treat that person the same way.

There is a certain group of people who don't care about others' privacy and will not respect others' time. When they dress up all they want to get is to have some admiration from others and these are the people who play the role of attention seekers in society. When they dress up they will directly make video calls to others. Ok, you are dressed and you can show your feminine side to others on video call but the person on the other end of the call might not be in a position to reveal his face in front of the camera. Don't you think is it not a privacy compromise?
This type of ambiguous situation will lead to a compromise of privacy and then people may start black mailing and bla..bla..bla... If both the people involved in the call are good friends and they trust each other then it is OK but showing your male face to the other person on camera is always risky. So, be careful and don't become prey to this type of video call.

I don't like to get disturbed while I am dressing at home or somewhere else. For me, every minute is so precious and I just want to live that moment. Some people on their very first or second chatting conversations start asking you the favor of giving them a call when dressed up. I am dressing for my satisfaction but not to impress others. Maybe this choice varies from person to person. But I love to enjoy dressing for myself.
People start sharing CD pictures without asking them to share. Then immediately they will delete it. I feel very offended by such type of acts because, in the first place, I didn't ask you to share your pics. You shared me, if you don't trust me why did you share me? . I respect privacy because it is everyone's right. Some people are at the very next level they will directly share the pics of their private parts as if they are the proud owners of their golden assets. We are crossdressers, not TG or genetic girls. So, we do have the same parts they do have..may be a slight variation in color and length..I doubt these types of people may use filters to brighten up their things.

One strange question we all come across is Full-time or Part-time CD. Seriously, to date, I don't understand this question. If someone can help me understand this by putting the answer in the comment it would be a great help. For me, a person who dresses all the time as a female would go for surgery and transform into women and they are called Transgenders. We, crossdressers, should not be compared with Transgenders because they sacrifice everything to become one. They will miss all their friends, family, and whatnot everything. So, I think they should be called full-time.
Crossdressers either with or without the knowledge of their family members do dressing once in a while. So, I think we crossdressers can be called part-time. We crossdressers usually respect transgender community but it's not just that educate your children that the Trans community is also normal human beings. We should treat them at par with others in the society. At least the next upcoming generations can live in this world in peace and harmony.

P.S: I usually share all my personal experiences in my blogs. No fiction ..nothing. Even though this was my experience in social media and an unpleasant one I don't want to put my picture for this blog post.
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